Tenth in a series of unedited blog articles from Grandson Daniel – “Question from a reader”
QUESTION “Hi Daniel, I am wondering how you, as a grandson of an Asian but growing up in US, view your cultural position. Do you consider yourself different from those with Caucasus blood, or you simply does not feel it as an issue? Do you find it easier to make friends with people with similar background as you? Do you think your Asian origin plays a role in your social life? (And if so, what kind of role?)”
REPLY FROM DANIEL I would classify myself as an Asian-American. I was born in America as were my parents. My father’s parents are Korean and my mother’s parents are Chinese. However, I grew up speaking English, and to date, it is the only language I am fluent in. As you may or may not know I have my grandfather translate the comments that are left in Chinese for me so that I may respond.
There are many Asian clubs and fraternities that I know of, but so far I have not joined any of them. They are a great way to meet other Asian people though. I have made friends with people from all different backgrounds, but I know that for some people, it is easier to make friends with those who have similar backgrounds to themselves. I do not believe that my Asian origin plays that big a role in my social life. These are all thoughts specific to me however.
I am obviously Asian. My face, my hair color, all show those traits. But I am also an American. America is a nation of immigrants, people from many different cultures have come together to share in one nation. That is why we have terms such as Asian American and African American. In the end, I don’t think it really matters to most people that I am of Asian origin. That’s not to say that I have never met people who judged me solely by my race, there will always be people like that. But for the most part, I feel that it is more about your personality than what you look like.