Happiness is more important than success.

    Why don't  we choose a happier life to live?   Due to less money, time, and energy, or business and puzzlement?  When we decide to seek reasons,  tens of thousands are not enough.

     The other day, I  read a article titled" why don't you permit to live a happier life" wrote by a psychologist.  I was deeply impressed with her interpritation in regard to happiness, particularly focusing on the positive effect of selection and responsibility. 

     In deed,  we have been entitled  the right to choose since we were born.  However,  many people ignore the valuable right from time to time, even always. As a consequence, those who haven't got the habit of choosing to live lose the ablity to make a decison to improve oneself. More frustrated is that  their life drop into mess,  missing one and one opportunity to change their state. 

     In contrary, those used to make a selection could step higher and higher, owing to their perspective to their heart and state.  Once a chance approaching, they can make a choice quickly and seize the opportunity, rather than let the chance slip away.  Apparently,  chances are that  these being good at  making decisons are more likey to obtain happiness, because thay are masters of their fate.  In other words, their life are dominated themselves.

     In additon to selection,  responsibility is another equally important  factor influncing humankind's happiness. Perhaps you cannot understand why we place responsibility to such a significant position, nevertheless, the fact that responsibility creat happiness grantsit so powerful,  even beyond our imagination.  If our life is comared to a ship, the selection is the compass of the ship; responsibility is the engine which pushes the ship move forward. Maybe, one marker that distinguishes human and creature is responsibility. Responsibiliy enable happiness to be texture-rich, making life more colorful.

    The lack of responsibility cannot guarantee the length and deepness, as you suddenly disconver an invaluable diamond to wear, but you drop it one day. As a result, you shorten you happy life yourself.  If we could cultivate our responsibility from being bore,  we may obtain more happiness as well as earlier happiness.

    If you are aware that happiness is more important than success, and you have been always seeking happiness, please insist on the belief: Selection and Responsibility Make Happiness.

NOTE:  It is a long time before I write in English,  onlf to find that my Engilish level decreases linearly. Perhaps in my article I made several errors,  here I beg your pardon.

   

 

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