Family is a gift to the heart, a golden thread to the meaning of life. Although some quarrels would happen in family life, there are more joys. Sometimes I think I live for my family and I cannot disappoint them. It is the motive I must work hard.  Of course I feel tired on occasion but I have to put myself together for my family. Life is magic. You can see the future you from your parents and you can see the past you from your children. If possible, I would have as many children as I can. You know, they are the representation of another you.  Death is absolute but life is also undoubted. In my view, life is eternal only if the genes exist and the best method to keep genes on is to have babies. You can get joys from the parenting although you will be under a lot of pressure. That is worthwhile.