Is it a pity or luck to become the one you hate?

Generally speaking, everyone has a model to follow especially at a young age.

I also know people who have no role model concerning personal characters.

We like someone some time for some reason. But it has nothing to do with our future roles to play.

Except for the positive aspect, we also developed a disliking feeling associated with some given type of person. We hate them because of their behaviors, such as lying or bullying.

Honesty, bravery, responsibility, and loyalty are so bright and attractive.

We want to be a man with the above characteristics.

Everything looks so crystal. If it is right, it is right. If it is wrong, it must be wrong. There is no middle field. Everyone should accept the above fact. This is the logic when we are young.

But when we will become adults, suddenly the world becomes so confusing and unclear.

Many things are out of control.

The things we believe to be right are so wrong in some others’eyes.

Everyone has his logic to layout and reasoning.

We cannot persuade others to change their viewpoints.

We try to solve our disagreements by law or force.

Unfortunately, we fail in many cases. So as a person or as a group or society, we continue to fight each other time and time again.

If the above statement is not bad enough, then suddenly we give up and blindly accept the main current viewpoints no matter what we have viewed them as right or wrong.

In other words, you gradually change into a strange man whose character we dislike in the past.

Some say it is just growing up and then gladly embrace it.

Not everyone takes the above option.

Someone may start to hate himself.

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成为你讨厌的人是遗憾还是幸运？

一般来说，每个人都有一个榜样，尤其是在年轻的时候。

我也认识一些在个人性格方面没有榜样的人。

我们出于某种原因喜欢某个人。但这与我们未来要扮演的角色无关。

除了积极的方面，我们还对某些特定类型的人产生了不喜欢的感觉。我们恨他们是因为他们的行为，例如说谎或欺凌。

诚实、勇敢、责任和忠诚是如此的明亮和有吸引力。

我们想做一个具备以上特点的人。

一切看起来都那么晶莹剔透。如果是对的，那就对了。如果错了，那一定是错的。没有中间区域。每个人都应该接受上述事实。这是我们年轻时的逻辑。

但是当我们长大成人后，世界突然变得如此混乱和不明朗。

很多事情都失控了。

我们认为正确的事情在其他人眼中是错误的。

每个人都有他的逻辑来布局和推理。

我们不能说服别人改变他们的观点。

我们试图通过法律或武力解决我们的分歧。

不幸的是，我们在很多情况下都失败了。因此，作为一个人，作为一个群体或社会，我们一次又一次地互相争斗。

如果上述说法还不够糟糕，那么我们会突然放弃并盲目接受当前的主流观点，无论我们认为它们是对还是错。

换句话说，你逐渐变成了一个陌生的男人，我们过去不喜欢他的性格。

有人说它只是长大，然后欣然接受它。

不是每个人都选择上述选项。

有人可能会开始讨厌自己。